What is she, the perfect married couple?!
An absolute idyll in relationships, the complete absence of conflicts, both on domestic grounds and in monetary matters, and in matters of raising children and relationships with parents.
The husband is the breadwinner in the family, earns enough to support the whole family, the wife is smart and beautiful, always looking great and an excellent hostess, the children are excellent students at school, always clean and tidy, polite and helpful …
Well, just the perfect couple.
For some reason, such a description of the ideal family looks more like a picture in a glossy magazine. And it’s completely incompatible with real life.
Once again, there are no ideal families.
In every family, sooner or later, various kinds of conflicts arise. And it doesn’t matter how many years you have lived together, at least one year, at least ten or twenty years, but even after forty years of marriage, the spouses may have conflicts and misunderstandings.
Conflicts can arise for any reason, and because of the accumulated family money spent on other purposes, and because of not washed dishes, and because of raising children, and even because the wife’s parents “got into” the affairs of a young families.
Even if you swear among yourself, this does not mean at all that you are a bad family and not an ideal couple. By the way, sometimes swearing is very useful.
What should be the relationship between husband and wife. There are simply no single rules or criteria for the correct relationship between spouses. Each family develops its own approaches and rules of relations, depending on many external factors. Such as the foundations of the family, which were inherent in the parents of the spouses, housing conditions, financial security of the family, and even the region in which the spouses live. All this, to one degree or another, affects the developing relationship between husband and wife.
Nevertheless, by analyzing the relationship between parents, the relationship between spouses – neighbors or friends, it is quite possible to determine what the relationship between husband and wife is like, and also what they should be in the ideal version for each family.